pearltiare:

snow white: you would stop driving to save a turtle on the road. you are intelligent, very soft spoken, and have an old soul. you are the most innocent in the friend group and lose every game of “never have i ever.” you always tries to see the positivity in bad situations.

cinderella: because of enduring trauma in parts of your life you are independent, strong-willed, and kind. you are striving for of a brighter future full of self-love and support. you fall into frustration and annoyance quite often. you always remember to stay grounded. 

jasmine: you get angry at even the thought of being seen as an object. you always try to support others who often feel the same. you stick up for what you know is right. you seem to always want what you cannot have, and feel restricted. you want a life full of freedom, choice, and respect for everybody.

belle: your main source of happiness lies in books. you value your education. you are confident and outspoken in your opinions. you do not let anyone talk over you. you sometimes feel left out, but you refuse to be mistreated by anyone. your friends look to you for advice because you think outside of the box.

ariel: you love exploration, science, culture, and art. because of your creative nature, you are curious about the world. you always plan adventures, whether it be with a loved one, with friends, or by yourself. you sometimes have fears of self-doubt and restriction. however, you always remember your worth.

mulan: sometimes opinions matter to you, but you still stay true to yourself. you are determined, very competitive, and strive for perfection. when things do not go according to your plans, you sometimes feel down. you like to think about how hard you have worked to become to person you are. 

tiana: sometimes you feel as if you have nothing, so you taught yourself to be resourceful. part of you will always have that in you, even with success. you often feel overworked and find it hard to relax. despite this, you feel joy in laughter. you are incredibly strong-willed and protect your friends.

elsa: on the outside, you are calm, poised, and elegant. however, you often feel alone and empty. you are introversive and would rather stay home with a good book then go out. people are intrigued by you, but you do not feel comfortable letting most people in. you have built many walls but are still kind, thoughtful, and strong. 

merida: your biggest pet peeve is tradition. you often feel very strict expectations surrounding your life, but often ignore them. your stubbornness and spontaneity sometimes gets you in trouble, but you often think to yourself, “the greatest minds in the world did not follow the rules.” your open mind caused you to grow within each year of your life.

kl118279:

alpha-blu:

satanicblowjobs:

PLEASE REBLOG if you (male or female) believe it is perfectly okay and natural for a guy of any age to cry

I’ve never hit reblog faster or harder.

Yes he may cry

mutantapologist:

Not to be like “we live in a society” but I think a lot of people’s mental health would be significantly less fucked if they didn’t have to function in a system that forces them to think about their value as a human being as based on how productive they are/how much money people can make off them

Me an autistic person: Hey can you not use the word cr*zy, It’s often associated with violence and mental illness/disablity and because of that people see it as an easy way to discribe evil an-
Some Neruotypical: Woah hold on there buddy, clearly you don’t understand that isn’t real ableism, you’re doing more damage to mental illness that way!
Me again an autistic person: I mean I’m explaining why it’s not good and I can explain why psychopath and sociopath aren’t good and why they’re removed from the DSM-V an-
The same neruotpyical: NOT ONLY ARE YOU DOING DAMANGE TO MENTALLY ILL PEOPLE BUT YOU’RE CENSORING US AS WELL! HOW DARE YOU! YOU’RE THE REAL ABLEIST AROUND HERE!

rowanthesloth:

ADHD: *puts off doing small but necessary tasks for weeks on end because they just seem too haaaaaaard*

also ADHD: *drops everything and spends 14 hours straight doing 150% of an unnecessary and highly-involved task that no one asked for without taking a single break to eat or pee*

marmett:

Howls moving castle movie: the black door leads to a war-torn countryside, with steampunk flying battleships dropping bombs and evil monsters that attack Howl

HMC book: the black door leads to a suburban neighborhood in Wales and the worst thing there is Howl’s sister

aparalyzedheart:

Mystery Skulls Crew, we wanted Arthur to sleep, NOT HAVING LEWIS BEING TO ONE TO PUT HIM TO SLEEP.

hyenapologist:

princessamericachavez:

puncromancer:

i say it’s time to bring back overtly sexual masquerade parties

#media has lied to me about the number of sexy masquerade balls that would be a part of my adult life#like there have been (0) and i’ve been promised once a year tbh (via. @travelerblessed)

Its called a “furry convention”. Theyre pretty common.

hachama:

barredandboujee:

prismatic-bell:

anexperimentallife:

just-tumbling-along:

bloodnikki:

theladyjanedoe:

sleepbby:

pro tip: before getting serious w a man, just casually mention ur period. like, just say ‘my cramps are bad rn’ or ‘I have to go buy some pads’. his reaction is very telling of how mature and understanding he is. you don’t wanna be dating a grown ass man who gets grossed out by the word menstruation. u deserve someone who is comfortable w u and I do mean all of u. you’ll be thanking urself for doing it now and not later hun!

THIS IS REALLY INDICATIVE OF HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT A LOT OF THINGS. TRUST ME.

True story. Once, I dated a guy once that wouldn’t let me pay for my own pads him he has with me. He wouldn’t go out and buy them himself if I needed them though. I had to stand next to him, which defeated the whole reason for him going to buy me any. Was uncomfortable with period talk and letting me pay for things myself.

Once, I also dated a guy that wouldn’t even stand in the pads alley with him. It grossed him out. Everything about my period grossed him out and he didn’t want to touch me. Just left me alone and didn’t want to deal with any of it. Wouldn’t even stand next to me when I bought pads.

Now, the guy I’m with and going to marry, he is a whole different story. I was dying of cramps and got my period while finishing up a class. (My campus can get very bad to the point where I’m shaking in pain or unable to move) Mistakenly didn’t bring pads and texted I needed him to do me the biggest favor. Not only did he buy me pads (something he does from time to time when I need them) but he marched through campus with them not bothering to hide it and brought me Advil. 

Last week, I was dying in pain and lost my hot pack when I went to visit my mother. I asked him to buy me a new one and he forgot. So, I’m in massive pain near tears and it’s past ten at night wishing I hadn’t been so stupid as to lose it. He gets dressed and goes out to get me a hot pack even when I tell him over and over that I can wait until morning and I don’t want him to go not because he needs to go to bed.

He flat out says “I love you. You asked me to get you a hot pack and I forgot. Now, you are in a lot of pain and I can’t stand to see that. So, I’m getting you the hot pack and I’ll be back soon.” Comes back with the hot pack, ice cream and a candy bar.

Not saying all men need to be this level of nice. But I am saying that bring up your period in a casual manner is a great way to see how people will treat you when you are sick, not feeling well, or just basically how they handled things.

ACTUALLY THEY DO NEED TO BE THAT LEVEL OF NICE THOUGH

You are absolutely correct, and I was a fool not to realize it sooner.

My grampa was like this. I still remember sitting in the bathroom throwing up, because hella period nausea, and him holding my hair out of my face and like … not exactly rubbing my back. Sort of patting it. Like he was trying to be comforting but wasn’t quite sure how, because a 17-year-old girl throwing up and crying and telling him this was normal was outside his wheelhouse, which, given that he was in his 70s at the time and married my grandma when she was already in menopause, is understandable. Anyway, he went and called his niece for advice. She told him to give me plain herbal tea for pain (since Advil wasn’t staying down) and put me to bed, and he did and asked if I needed anything from the store, and went out and bought me pads and extra herbal tea, and called my school and told them I was sick and he was keeping me home.

If a man born in 1929 can pull it off, boys, so can you.

This is extremely real.

Once I was at the apartment of a disaster-man I used to talk to, and I walked into the bathroom only to awkwardly turn right around like ‘..you..don’t have a trash can in your bathroom.’ He says, ‘yeah, and?’ I say “I’m on my period and I don’t know what to do with my tampon.”

“EW” he yelled at me. “YOU’RE THIRTY” I yelled back.

Cannot believe a grown man can’t deal with this basic part of most women’s lives.

Fast forward a few years to the first time I’m staying at my current boyfriend’s place while on my period. I apologized for the inconvenience/unsexiness because of how I’ve been socialized as a woman, and he was just like ‘…you have nothing to apologize for, your body is doing what its supposed to do, and of course you’re still sexy. How do you feel? Is there something I can do?’

Dudes’ responses to your period really tell you so much.

My husband keeps pads in his glove box, because I am very likely to get preoccupied with whatever it’s going on outside my uterus and forget that it’s about to ruin my clothes.

He brings me ice cream and chocolate and builds me forts on the couch out of pillows and blankets.

Do not waste your time with a partner who is disgusted by the natural functions of your body.

imagined-comfort:

Hello My Darling, 

How I wish I could just take those feelings of doubt and sadness away from you, to make you doubt yourself less, to make you realize that these are all just little negative thoughts that have worked their way in because you are comparing yourself to someone else. 

No one in this entire world compares to you. 

No one can match your creativity. No one else has the creative spirit that you do because there is no one else in the world like you. And know that I would have it no other way. 

But you are not alone in feeling this way. There are many days where I have doubts about myself, about my cooking. I wonder…if I too, am good enough. And I have had the pleasure to have you simply remind me, that I am.

So, My Darling, please remember that to me, you are more than enough. Your joy that you find with the things you love will come back around again. 

I promise you.

With all my Love, 
Ignis

imagined-comfort:

Darling, 

I was…rather beside myself when I had heard that you had been admitted to the hospital for such a reason, and it pained me more that I could not be at your side to assist you. 

However, I am very glad that you are alright, and are well on the road to recovery. 

I know that you will have a strict diet for a time, and I am currently researching any and all recipes that might be beneficial to you, that actually taste good compared to a simple broth, or yogurt. Do not worry Darling, I know that I will make your favorites for you again, once your appetite has fully returned. 

I swear to pamper you properly once you have been released and can return home. For now, rest up, take care, and I shall return to your side as quickly as I can. 

With all of my Love,
Ignis